“These three words might sound strange, but if we look closely, all three fit the idea of improving oneself.”
“Fixing or improving yourself means working on yourself no matter your age. Whatever stage of life you are in today, it’s about making yourself better than you were before.”
“Improve yourself so much—your mindset, your physical health, and your thinking—that when you stand in front of a mirror, you see a completely new person.”
“Nowadays, everyone wants to improve, but not everyone succeeds. Only a few manage to, because they shape their mindset to create a unique identity that sets them apart from the rest.”
“When the thought enters your mind that you want to improve and stand out, and you decide you will do whatever it takes—whatever work, whatever effort—then once this determination takes hold, even the entire universe will have to support you.”
“Always train yourself to the point where no matter what happens, you stick to the mindset you’ve set. At first, it may be very difficult, but one day you will change so much that people will want to become like you.”
“One important thing stands out—why does a person strive to improve? The biggest reason is when hope and trust are broken, a person removes themselves from everything. In that moment, the thought arises: ‘I am alone, I am different from everyone, I have to do something.’ This very determination transforms a person, awakening the power within to accomplish something remarkable.”
When the mindset of “I want to achieve something” enters your mind, you can no longer hold yourself back. Once this mindset develops within you, whatever comes your way, you feel, “I have to do it.” This mindset, combined with determination, plays a huge role in making a person better than before. When a person works on improving themselves, they also start giving priority to their health. Being better means improving in every way—physically, mentally, and in all aspects of life.
Mindset is not like cooking food, where you light the stove, cook, and in an hour the meal is ready.Mindset means you are taking yourself to a place where you have to leave many things behind to achieve it.In other words, it means you are making yourself better.
Discipline
For mindset, you must first bring yourself into discipline — that will be your very first task.
You have to bring yourself to a stage where nothing else matters except you.You must maintain yourself firmly, like a pillar.
No matter what happens, we must do the work in our own way and focus on making ourselves better. If people discuss or talk about you, it should not affect you. The only response you should give is a small smile and then walks away. At that moment, the other person will start thinking — “We said so much to him, yet he didn’t reply, he just smiled and left.” They will also wonder, “This person is usually full of answers, but today he stayed silent.” If you want to make yourself a pillar, if you want to become a better person, then the first step is to bring yourself into discipline.
Consistent
You must always keep one task in your mind — no matter what happens, I have to do it under any circumstances.Whatever the situation may be, you must complete your task with the mindset of “I have to do it, no matter what.”This determination must come from within you.No matter what happens during the day, you must take out time and make sure to do that task every single day — that is the kind of determination you must bring into yourself. You have to bring yourself to that stage where, no matter what the situation is, you still complete your task.
No Excuse
The worst thing in today’s time is that when we are given a task, instead of doing it on time, we ourselves create excuses for not doing it. In today’s time, at least 50% of people have the mindset of “I’ll do it later.”This mindset needs to change. The excuses people make for not doing any task are nothing but excuses they give themselves.No matter how big or how difficult the work is, if you don’t do it and keep making excuses, someone else will do it. Work will never stop for anyone.`If you truly want to change yourself, you must let go of making excuses.
Self confidence
It is very important for every person to have this understanding: everything is good only up to a certain limit, but if it goes beyond that, it becomes harmful. Confidence is the same way. Having the confidence that “I can do it” is good, but bringing the thought “Only I can do it” is harmful.Do your work with such confidence that even if tomorrow you fail, it doesn’t affect you at all. This is the mind-set you should carry. You must always keep the mindset: “Yes, I can do it, and I will give my best at my level. “One day, you will succeed in it.
But you should never have the thought: “Only I can do it.”
Take decisions instantly.
A decision is not something for which you take time to think — a decision is something you take immediately: either yes or no, do it or don’t do it. Never take too much time for a decision. It has a huge impact on your personality. Decisions should always be instant.
I’m not saying that every decision you make will be right — it can be wrong too — but if it is wrong, you must work to make it right. When you stand by your decisions, it sets your personality apart from others.
“No” means no, no matter what.
“Yes” means yes, no matter what.
Decisions should always be taken instantly. Overthinking people are always troubled.
Give Priority to yourself.
You should always give priority to yourself. Because if you keep thinking about what others will say, then what they think will control you. Make yourself in such a way that no one can control you, and you are able to manage everyone else. In reality, this is a mind game. If you are chasing someone and they realize it, they will start controlling your mind.That’s why you should always develop yourself so that in any situation, you can control yourself. This mind game is very important in today’s time.Therefore, always give yourself the first priority.
Personal Accountability
It is very important to take full responsibility for your own work.Your work is your responsibility, and it should not depend on anyone else.Having the mindset of being responsible for your own work is extremely essential. In life, the word “responsibility” is extremely important.
“Do the work, no matter what.”
If you want to do any work, you will do it. There is a saying: No work is small or big. What matters is what goes on in the mind of the person doing it — whether they will do it or not. Everything depends on your mindset: whether you choose to do it or not. I’m not saying that you should do just any work.But if doing that work doesn’t make you complain and gives you satisfaction, then definitely do it, no matter what anyone says.
Make yourself silent.
Making yourself silent means speaking only when necessary. Do not give meaningless advice anywhere.Speak only when it feels essential and unavoidable. Always keep yourself silent.
People will wait to hear what you have to say, and whatever decision you make, no matter the matter, people will give it priority.
Make Positive attitude
Always keep your attitude positive. Never let negative thoughts enter your mind. Always stay with a positive attitude. This positive attitude will take you to a level where you will have the courage to achieve something. Always maintain yourself with a positive attitude and keep yourself away from those with a negative attitude.
If you take care of all these things, you will see a change in yourself within one month.
